ToughLove - Coercive & Controlling Behaviour (Year 9+)

Give your students the language, confidence, and support pathways to recognise unhealthy relationships early.


An exciting new teaching resource from 'Narrative Alchemy's '2 Pears Films' project, and The Hollie Gazzard Trust. ToughLove provides a compelling film and a complete pack of step-by-step lessons, empowering staff to lead confident, impactful discussions on relationships. 

For only £495.95 (inc. VAT), your school gets 12 months unlimited access to the ToughLove film and complete resource pack. You can renew each year if useful, and 20% of every subscription goes directly to The Hollie Gazzard Trust, supporting their vital work in preventing domestic abuse, raising awareness in schools, and providing help and resources for those at risk.

Check out the trailer...

What's included?

  • Film Resource


    At the heart of the resource is a professionally produced 30-minute drama that follows Becka and Daniel’s relationship as it gradually shifts from excitement to control.


    The film is powerful, age-appropriate, and highly relatable, giving students a realistic insight into how unhealthy patterns can develop. Its quality and authenticity make it an engaging teaching tool, capturing attention while opening the door to thoughtful discussion and reflection on the themes it raises.

  • Structured Lesson Plans
    (Developed by The Hollie Gazzard Trust)

    Complementing the film is a complete six-lesson resource pack. Each lesson is fully structured with clear objectives, timed activities, and guided discussion points, supported by facilitator notes, content warnings, and safeguarding guidance.


    Students are encouraged to explore the issues through creative tasks, scenarios, and role-play, helping them practise boundary-setting, build empathy, and develop a shared vocabulary around coercive control. The resource pack provides teachers with everything they need to deliver confident, impactful lessons without additional planning.

  • 12 Months Unlimited Access


    A single subscription provides 12 months of unlimited access across your whole school, giving every member of staff the confidence and flexibility to use the resource whenever needed.

    This allows you to deliver the session to different classes in different year groups at a time that suits you - ensuring as many students as possible benefit from this essential safeguarding education.

    The package is designed to be entirely teacher-ready, with slides, prompts, and step-by-step guidance built in.

"The film and resource really captured our students’ attention in a way that a talk or power-point never could. The discussions that followed were some of the most honest and engaged we’ve had in PSHE.”

PSHE Lead, Secondary School

Why Story?

Stories create awareness and drive change because they move us beyond information into lived experience. By engaging both the head and the heart, narrative makes complex issues relatable, memorable, and actionable - helping young people not just to understand, but to care and respond.

  • Story makes it real – abstract concepts like coercive control become tangible when seen through the eyes of relatable characters.

  • Story builds empathy – by inviting students to step into another’s perspective, it fosters emotional connection and deeper understanding.

  • Story drives reflection and action – when paired with structured classroom resources, stories don’t just raise awareness; they inspire dialogue, shift attitudes, and lay the groundwork for lasting change.

Why Trust Us?

  • This resource was created through the partnership of Narrative Alchemy and The Hollie Gazzard Trust - combining issue-based storytelling expertise with safeguarding experience.

Narrative Alchemy Limited

Narrative Alchemy is a UK-based organisation dedicated to using film, storytelling, and education to tackle complex social issues affecting young people. Through impactful films, applied theatre, workshops, and digital learning resources, we create engaging, research-backed content that helps schools, educators, and communities address critical topics such as County Lines, Child Sexual Exploitation, Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control, and Knife Crime.

Beyond working with schools, colleges, and universities, we collaborate with the NHS, MoD, police forces, and social services, providing effective intervention tools to safeguard young people. Our work extends across the UK and internationally, partnering with educators, safeguarding professionals, and policymakers to develop solutions that spark conversations, build resilience, and drive real change - ensuring young people are equipped with the knowledge and confidence to make safe, informed choices.

The Hollie Gazzard Trust

Founded in memory of Hollie Gazzard, the Trust works tirelessly to prevent domestic abuse and support young people at risk. As a nationally respected charity, it delivers education, awareness campaigns, and practical tools such as the Hollie Guard personal safety app, which has been widely adopted across the UK. Bringing survivor-led insight and safeguarding expertise, the Trust ensures that every resource it develops is sensitive, credible, and effective—giving schools confidence that the material they are using is grounded in both compassion and real-world impact.

Bring ToughLove into your classroom for only £495.95 (inc VAT)

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